I like to believe our society, as a whole, is enjoying a post-pitting-women-against-each-other era. So I need to make clear that, as a Swiftie and an Olivia Rodrigo fan (Rigoes? Oliviators? Rodias?), I am not asking who is a better singer, performer, songwriter, 19-year-old, person, woman etc. I am merely begging to…